Thanksgiving week's BOLD LAW is " Focus on the solution , not the problem ! "

When we are challenged by a problem, it's natural to turn to others we trust for help. Just be sure that when you are explaining the problem , that you are listening for a solution. Don't be the whiner who is more interested in complaining and seeking attention than getting answers.

Nobody likes Drama Queens and Kings ! If you are known as an " energy Vampire " , people will run away from you because they need to conserve their own energy to handle their stuff ! Don't suck the life out of them !

For the most part , people are willing to assist you if................

1....You get right to the point and explain your situation

2....You run a solution or two by them to get their opinion of it

3....You listen to them ( two ears & one mouth ) and perhaps take their advice 

4....Be grateful for their time and sincerely thank them ! 

All of that can happen when you are focused on the solution first , and the problem second.

Make it a Magnificent Monday !

Contributed by KCN leader Don Aldrich